Well I've just realised how
hopeless I've been with regular updates recently so I'm working on
something to sort that out. And right now I'm super busy and sort of
uninspired to produce something new so thought I'd go through my draft
posts to see if I had anything that I felt I was in the right mindset to
elaborate on. But I didn't. What I did find was a blog post I drafted
in January that literally sums up how I am exactly where I am right now
and I thought that was pretty ironic. I'm not ready to share this with
you or explain what I'm up to for the time being, there's so many
uncertainties, ifs and buts; by the end of August I'll probably be able
to explain the mess that's going on in my life but until then, thank you
all for your patience. And here's a little more of an exciting blog
post for you...
So
if you know me in real life, you probably know that I'm a little bit of
a Disney-obsessed nutter. And that's no exaggeration. It often comes as
a little bit of a shock to people that I haven't actually been to any
of the Disney Parks so this summer that will be changing. I'm so very
excited to be going to Disney World Florida for my first trip to America
but I'm clueless - I haven't a clue what any of the best bits are and
would love to know which parts you all recommend. So comment away!!
Keep smiling,
Kathryn x
Friday 22 July 2016
Tuesday 5 July 2016
Just because
Sat on my bed in what can only be described as a not-brilliant mood (kind of upset, kind of annoyed), I've spent a lot of time deliberating over whether or not I should actually write this post because I'm not the sort of person who enjoys going off on a rant. I promise I'm going to keep it as far away from that as I possibly can but I do have some annoyances to express.
We seem to live in a world where we need to justify every decision we make to just about anyone who wants to hear it and I just don't think that's right.
People are nosey, I get it. But when 'I'm sorry but this makes me feel uncomfortable' needs to be replaced with 'I'm sorry but this makes me feel uncomfortable because a long time ago I had this experience where.....' surely it becomes a violation of privacy. And if one day you're not feeling 100% yourself, you have to come up with a full justification because you're just tired/had an argument with someone close/can't be fully cheery every second of every day, then maybe you're just not spending your time with the right people.
But do you know what's even worse? When you have to justify how you react to certain situations. When someone treats you badly and you have to explain exactly which parts of your mistreatment made you feel a little bit rubbish. I'm really sorry, but maybe re-living those moments is just like pushing the knife further in.
And even worse than that, when you give a perfectly good justification but the person quizzing you simply can't take your answer as they've got preconceived ideas that your answers simply don't live up to. Especially when these brilliant preconceived ideas are in support of the person doing you wrong. Yes, I simply love making lies up, it's my favourite hobby. Just for future reference, that's sarcasm. I cannot lie for toffee; the only lie I tell semi-convincingly (well, that's debatable) is 'I'm fine' on occasions when I may not be.
And don't get me wrong, I really appreciate people asking slightly intrusive questions if they have genuine concerns AND want to help but if it's just plain nosiness and gossiping, then they really need to start appreciating your privacy.
From a young age, children are taught to accept 'just because' as an answer to life's tougher questions, so at which point was it that this stopped?
Sorry for the slightly ranty post, I can assure you that I'll back to my normal bubbly self by the time I next post but as I'm sure you've gathered, I'm just not feeling quite 100% right now. No justification needed.
Keep smiling,
Kathryn x
We seem to live in a world where we need to justify every decision we make to just about anyone who wants to hear it and I just don't think that's right.
People are nosey, I get it. But when 'I'm sorry but this makes me feel uncomfortable' needs to be replaced with 'I'm sorry but this makes me feel uncomfortable because a long time ago I had this experience where.....' surely it becomes a violation of privacy. And if one day you're not feeling 100% yourself, you have to come up with a full justification because you're just tired/had an argument with someone close/can't be fully cheery every second of every day, then maybe you're just not spending your time with the right people.
But do you know what's even worse? When you have to justify how you react to certain situations. When someone treats you badly and you have to explain exactly which parts of your mistreatment made you feel a little bit rubbish. I'm really sorry, but maybe re-living those moments is just like pushing the knife further in.
And even worse than that, when you give a perfectly good justification but the person quizzing you simply can't take your answer as they've got preconceived ideas that your answers simply don't live up to. Especially when these brilliant preconceived ideas are in support of the person doing you wrong. Yes, I simply love making lies up, it's my favourite hobby. Just for future reference, that's sarcasm. I cannot lie for toffee; the only lie I tell semi-convincingly (well, that's debatable) is 'I'm fine' on occasions when I may not be.
And don't get me wrong, I really appreciate people asking slightly intrusive questions if they have genuine concerns AND want to help but if it's just plain nosiness and gossiping, then they really need to start appreciating your privacy.
From a young age, children are taught to accept 'just because' as an answer to life's tougher questions, so at which point was it that this stopped?
Sorry for the slightly ranty post, I can assure you that I'll back to my normal bubbly self by the time I next post but as I'm sure you've gathered, I'm just not feeling quite 100% right now. No justification needed.
Keep smiling,
Kathryn x
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